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October 28 Wonderful Table TopicsI attended the Division B speech contest held at Sunday as an audience. It was great opportunity to observe those good speakers and I'd like to summarize my learnings here -
1. The use of Ah - Never have it if possible. My past observation is that native english speakers seldom have ah in their speeches while many native chinese speakers tend to have a lot of ah's even when they are speaking in Chinese. It's wierd, right? Ah's generally indicate we are not ready for what to say next. My conclusion is that english is lengthy while chinese is concise. In the same time duration, using chinese can deliver more information than using english. Chinese speakers speak faster than they think while english speakers think faster than they speak. They should be thinking in the same speed. So the tip to avoid ah is to slow down our pace a little.
2. Language - Language is a tool for communication. Many people think it's ok as long as we can convey our message. It may be true for one to one conversations. I doubt it when coming to speeches, which is generally one to many. Both grammar errors and influency reduce our credibility and make us ineffective in front of a big audience. So improve our language first if we want to do public speech.
3. Good structure - Have an opening and a strong conclusion no matter what we are talking about. It just makes our speech more convincing whatever we are saying in the body part. No more to say as i have talked this a little bit i a former educational speech.
4. Humor - We cannot win best table topic without laughter from the audience. Humor is necessary in the delivery of any speeches unless improper. Fun points in a speech keep the audience concentrating on our speech and help them to undertsand our purpose.
5. Gorgeous words and sentences - Nontrivial words, triads and parallelism make our speeches splendid. They are not necessary for communication but to show, win and make us unique. The best table topic speaker used "rainbow" to describe the color of Beijing and then got the first place. It's definitely more unique than saying Beijing is multi-colored. I once used 3 forms of the same word - performance, perform and performer and it seemed many people like that. So as triads and parallelism. These gorgeous words and sentence can change our speeches from average to above average.
Just my personal opinions about delivering table topics. These techniques can also be used in prepared speeches. Practice can help us to make these techniques become our instincts.
Generally speaking, public speaking is also a kind of performance and some kind of exaggeration is necessary. :) November 04 DynamicsA good saying - It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is the most adaptable to change.
There are just so many dynamics. October 21 完美主义者最近很多人推荐这个9型人格测试http://www.outosky.com/9/nine.asp。试了一下，发现自己没变太多，还是有点追求完美 :)
April 24 Strength FinderI finally managed to finish the strengthfinder test in www.strengthfiner.com. Here are my top 5 strengths discovered by them. How many of them are real? I would be so powerful if the 5 strengths were real.
 我的标志主题: Restorative/排 难 : 排除故障的行家里手善于发现问题并解决问题。 Competition/竞 争 : 竞争性强的人参照他人的表现来衡量自身的进步。他们力争第一，陶醉于竞争的喜悦中。 Significance/追 求 : 追求主题较强的人希望在别人的眼中非同凡响。他们独立性强，渴望被承认。 Relator/交 往 : 交往能力强的人喜欢人际间的亲密关系。他们最大的满足是与朋友一道为实现一个目标而同舟共济。 Deliberative/审 慎 : 他们每做一个决定均慎之又慎，并设想所有的困难。 想要了解你的“标志主题”，请购买以下盖洛普出版物中的任何一种。每本书中都赠送了一个密码，你可以参加“优势识别器”测试，并帮助你思考怎样充分发挥自己的才干。 如果你是一位经理，《现在，发现你的优势》会帮助你思考如何帮助其他人各自的发挥优势。你可以在任何一个较大的书店买到《现在，发现你的优势》，或者登录下面的网站：http://www.gallup.com.cn 如果你是一位推销员或者销售经理，《发现你的销售优势》将教会你关注你自身的才干和优势，并指导你把自身的这些资产转化为坚实的销售业绩－－和成功的职业生涯。你可以在任何一个较大的书店买到《发现你的销售优势》，或者登录下面的网站：http://www.gallup.com.cn May 07 labor day vacation1 day shopping;
1 long TV play;
1 book;
1 day park traveling;
4 day driving law training.
no time wasted :) February 10 西方人的“幸福”指数西方人的“幸福”指数 英国经济学教授安德鲁-奥斯瓦认为，金钱对幸福感的作用远远没有想象的那么大。例如，最近几十年间，西方国家国民收入增长了近3倍，但自我幸福感受却似乎没有增长。尽管如此，西方国民的幸福指数还是高于贫穷国家。研究者们由此推论，在物质生活短缺的情况下，生活水平的增长可带来较大的幸福指数增长：而当短缺得到克服后，幸福指数和生活水平的关系就出现一种饱和。 奥斯瓦教授连续7年观察了7500多名英国人的生活和自我幸福感受的变迁，为生活中的各种幸福和不幸事件对幸福感带来的影响“定了价”，回答了一个看似简单的问题：每月的收入需增加(减少)多少欧元，才能抵消某一事件主观上给人生带来的不幸(幸福)感。 奥斯瓦的分析表明，身患重病带来的不幸感大约要靠每月收入增加6. 15万欧元才能得到补偿，是人生最大的不幸。结婚相当于每月增加9000欧元；离异、丧偶和失业分别相当于每月损失了1．65万、2．1万和3145万欧元。 摘自《看世界》2005/9 Talking about 面经...msra ttg...
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